How to define your boundaries
Boundaries can be confusing to people. Are boundaries rules? Statements? Guidelines? Borders?
When we set boundaries with people, what are we doing? When we set boundaries with children, are we disciplining them, or are we guiding them?
Boundaries seem to mean many things, so let’s define what we mean by boundaries.
Setting boundaries around boundaries
Simply put, a boundary is a border. A dividing line or a limit. Boundaries can be:
In my work, I help people develop a sense of physical and personal boundaries so that they can have the sense of privacy they need to be able to work with their thoughts, emotions, visions, dreams, and needs.
If you tend to be very sensitive or hyper-empathic, this physical sense of boundaries can be very supportive.
You can learn this practice with me in the video below.
Both of these vital emotions tend to be distrusted or repressed, but both are essential for healthy inner and outer boundaries.
As you move forward with a sense of your boundaries, working with your anger and shame will be crucial for your success.
Thank you, anger and shame!